How to Hire an Executor. For your loved one’s estate or your will.

E183 Did Her Estate Plan Work?

E183 Did Her Estate Plan Work? A Solo Ager Example


Let’s take a look at a real world example of whether a Solo Ager’s estate plan worked towards the end of her life.

Ms.H’s Plan: DIY Will + Professional Executor

Background

Ms. H is a solo ager (unmarried, no kids, over 60 years old) who’s been estranged from her closest relatives (siblings and nieces and nephews) for decades.

She made a do-it-yourself will leaving everything to charity. Thankfully, she hired a lawyer to supervise her will signing.

Ms. H named me her professional executor in her will, and over the past 10 years her wishes have remained largely the same.

Recently

Sadly, age has caught up with Ms. H, and she was recently hospitalized for lack of self-care. Her doctors agree they cannot discharge her to live alone anymore, so we’re making arrangements for Ms. H to move into assisted living.

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She’s understandably anxious about all this, and even contacted her long-estranged niece and asked her to visit.

What Went Right with Her Plan?

Ms. H avoided a few problems by naming me her professional executor.

First, she won’t have to deal with any “court-appointed strangers,” such as a guardian. Instead, she can turn to me, someone she’s chosen and has a relationship with.

Second, she felt comfortable reaching out to estranged family, without fear they’d try to sneak into her inheritance. Since Ms. H already has a will and an attorney-executor standing by, her niece has focused solely on reconnecting with Ms. H emotional, not financially.

And lastly, Ms. H’s doctors, hospitals, and social worker have all been grateful to have me as a main point of contact for her care.

What Went Wrong with Her Plan?

Her plan does have a couple of weaknesses.

Since an executor steps in after death, I don’t have authority to help Ms. H now. For example, I can’t help make financial arrangements for her to access a better assisted living. She much choose among the options thru Medicare.

Also, if unscrupulous and aggressive family comes out of the woodwork, I have fewer tools to fend them off. We’d have to battle in court, which could waste Ms. H’s time and money, and cause her stress.

Why a Trust Could Have Been Better

If Ms. H had made me trustee, I’d be better to avoid any court-appointed strangers for her. And more ability to upgrade her care, and deter unwanted family, without having to go to court.

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E182 3 Examples of How Co-Ops Are Worse (an Executor’s Perspective)

E182 3 Examples of How Co-Ops Are Worse (an Executor’s Perspective)


Most NYers know the deal with co-ops: they’s less expensive than condos, but they come with a lot of rules and headaches. Here are 3 real world examples:

  1. Last to unlock
  2. Quick to Sue
  3. Release of lien

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E181 3 Examples of a Professional Executor to the Rescue

E181 3 Examples of a Professional Executor to the Rescue


Today we’ll share a few recent examples of why folks were so happy and relieved to find me, and name me executor in their will

Today’s stories:

  1. Don’t want to burden the boyfriend
  2. Former co-worker as a last resort
  3. Relieving an old friend

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E178 Solo Agers and Hospice Care

E178 Solo Agers and Hospice Care


Talking Solo Agers and Hospice Care with Helen Bauer and Jerry Fenter from the Heart of Hospice podcast.

Helen shares her personal experience helping during a Solo Ager friend’s final weeks. And Jerry shares some Solo Ager statistics and what he learned from Solo Ager Facebook groups.

Links: http://www.theheartofhospice.com/

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E177 Yes, I Can Be Your Executor Outside New York State

E177 Yes, I Can Be Your Executor Outside New York State


I keep getting calls, asking me to be executor outside New York. I’m flattered, and honored, and yes AVAILABLE for that role.

  1. Locality becoming less important
  2. In-state agent requirement
  3. Reciprocal nonresident executor law

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E175 Amateur Executor Bloopers

E175 Amateur Executor Bloopers


We’ll share a few real-world amateur executor bloopers (of course, anonymized to protect our clients’ privacy)

  1. Choosing a disappearing banker
  2. The case of the missing $10,000 check
  3. “Oh yeah, taxes!”

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E173 Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers with Sara Geber Part 2

E173 Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers with Sara Geber (Part 2)

Talking “Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers” with Sara Zeff Geber. In part 2, we cover:

(1) The importance of social networks for Solo Agers, and
(2) Who can Solo Agers choose as their Executors, Guardians, and Custodians?

E172 Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers with Sara Geber Part 1

E172 Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers with Sara Geber (Part 1)

Talking “Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers” with Sara Zeff Geber. In part 1, we cover:

(1) Who are Solo Agers? and
(2) Different Housing Options for Solo Agers

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E170 How to Name a Professional Executor in Your DIY Will

E170 How to Name a Professional Executor in Your DIY Will


Against all advice, you’ve decided to use a DIY will. But you also want to name me your professional executor.

Today we’ll discuss:

  1. When you call me
  2. Show me your DIY will
  3. Supervised signings

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E168 Stay in Touch with Your Professional Executor

E168 Stay in Touch with Your Professional Executor


So you’ve named me executor in your will (or trustee of your trust). What’s next?

We’ll discuss:

  1. Regular check-in calls
  2. Where are your documents?
  3. How else I keep in touch
  4. How I’ll be informed when you pass

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